SUPER MARITAL SEX COURTSHIP RULES: DECLARE EMOTIONAL AND ROMANTIC VULNERABLITY
Right from the start, let partners know you are looking for love in all the right places. Do not hold back, for holding back does not stop you from getting hurt. It only stops you from falling in love. Vulnerability is another reason to save intercourse for marriage. We cannot let go if we are going to be hurt through disease, pregnancy, desertion, and loneliness. Every act of intercourse is a decision, not just an impulse. Letting go does not mean losing control. It means letting your partner know that the basic reason you are courting anyone at any time is to look for love, to find someone to bond with. We have sex within a system and with a system, not with a person. When we have sex with someone, we are being intimate with all they are or have ever been.
“I used to say, ‘Look, I’m not open to getting emotionally involved right now.’ How dumb. As if I had control over that anyway,” reported one wife. What did she mean in the first place? Was she looking to get unemotionally involved? Or was she looking to get emotionally uninvolved? Declare yourself on the side of emotions and love, in marriage and courtship.
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