YOUR MARITAL HEALTH/OWNING AND OPERATING YOUR OWN SEX CLINIC: FOLLOW-UP FOR FOUL-UPS
No one program changes anything permanently. I told the couples that their treatment began when their visits to the clinic ended. I saw them all several times at intervals until the five-year follow-up, but more important I asked them to conduct their own follow-up. All marriages have severe conflict, disappointment, life-cycle changes, and daily pressures. To cope more effectively with such pressure, mark on a calendar a time for one brief trip every three or four months. This R&R trip does not have to be expensive, but getting away together not for vacation but for marital recommitment is important to continuing the gains you have made in owning and operating your own sex clinic for super marital sex.
Every New Year’s Eve, your first and foremost task is to select those dates for follow-up trips to deal with and prevent foul-ups of your super marital progress. Give priority to these dates and schedule work and other obligations around them as much as realistically possible. As I stated in Chapter One, so long as we continue to put marriage last, to allow all other events priority in our life schedule, marriage will continue to reflect this place on our commitment list. Once you have the dates, they should be considered as fixed and as important as any other events that may come up. For super marital sex, these dates should be considered even more important than most other events, a form of marital rebirth-days.
“People seem to get almost angry that we have those dates,” reported one husband. “They ask if this is our vacation, I tell them no, and they cannot understand just going away to recommit. Maybe it’s a form of marital jealousy, because they tell me later that they wish they could do it. We stopped wishing and did it. One guy at work even said I was more dedicated to my marriage than to work. I agreed, and he almost had a seizure.”
His wife added, “Of all things, a woman at work asked if I was trying to make a super marriage. A super marriage. Can you believe that? I am sure she meant it sarcastically, but she actually used the word.”
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