There are two forms of suicide. True suicide is when a person kills themselves; para-suicide occurs when someone makes an ‘attempt’ to commit suicide but does not succeed.
Suicide is as old as the human race, and over the centuries has been condemned by Church and State. It is, however, an uncommon form of death, causing only about 1 per cent of deaths in the UK. In the under 20 age group, though, it is the second most common cause of death-after accidents. Suicide is still a crime in several US states but in the UK it stopped being illegal in 1961.
Although the actual number of suicides is falling in the UK and the US there is no room for complacency. Suicide is still twice as common in the US as is homicide and the figures for homicide are not low. Overall, in the US and UK, suicide is the fifth most common cause of death.
Why do people do it?
• If three or more of the following factors apply to an individual, he or she must be considered to be at risk of committing suicide and should have professional help:
1. Depression (undoubtedly the major cause).
2. Severe insomnia.
3. Severe hypochrondriacal preoccupations.
4. A previous attempt at suicide.
5. A history of alcohol or drug abuse.
6. Schizophrenia.
7. A disabling painful disease or serious physical illness.
8. Social isolation.
9. Repeated suicidal thoughts.
10. A history of suicide in the family.
11. A history of bereavement, or recent bereavement.
12. Unemployment or financial problems.
13. Recovery from depression.
Suicide is three times more common among divorced people than among the married and is also more common in the single than the married. Minority racial groups have higher suicide rates in almost every country that has been studied.
Although at least twice as many women suffer from overt depression as do men, far more men than women kill themselves. In the 80-84-year-old group seven times as many men kill themselves as do women.
For a quarter of a century professionals and executives have headed the list of successful suicides and among these health professionals come high up. Twice as many doctors kill themselves as do other professionals, for example.
‘Why go on living?’ is a common thought when depressed people contemplate suicide. Life for them has reached a point where it appears to have little meaning and they can see no end to their problems or a future for themselves. These thoughts are especially indicative of trouble if they are out of character for the individual concerned.
• A sudden impulse after a disappointment or a row can lead to spur-of-the-moment suicide. This is relatively uncommon and the suicide is usually unsuccessful. Sometimes a person who has just learned of their partner’s infidelity or serious illness walks around in a daze of rage or distress and falls under a car, oblivious to its presence. Such ‘suicides’ are preventable if the individual is protected from him-or herself during this ‘at risk’ stage.
• Physical or mental exhaustion can trigger suicidal thoughts, even in non-depressed people. Repeated loss of sleep with endless mental and emotional trauma can wear down the most normal of people. This can happen, for example, in young mothers-the world simply gets on top of them temporarily. If they are not depressed, such people rarely want to die, and the opportunity to vent their feeling-perhaps by a good cry, a holiday, or the solving of practical problems-often alleviates their distress.
• Some people who try to commit suicide but are unsuccessful are trying to communicate something to those around them, and often to one person in particular. A husband or wife begging his or her partner to be faithful, a teenager trying to get some love and attention, are but two of the many examples. Such people rarely kill themselves, except accidentally as a result of dicing with death.
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